Sunday, February 23, 2014

Do wanna-be SAHM's really want to do it for the children or for their own selfish desires?




Neo


Regarding this article:
http://thewomanandthedragon.wordpress.com/2012/09/19/one-out-of-three-women-resent-their-husbands-for-not-earning-enough-money/

Here are a couple exerpts from a woman (ok, just one but does she represent more?)

âSo maybe while itâs a luxury (SAHM) I do think about, itâs not one I would want unless it was actually luxurious. I donât want to be a stay at home mom who clips coupons or plans her weekly menu to make ends meet⦠If thatâs the case, Iâd gladly go on working to avoid that fate.â

Since when is being a stay-at-home-mom meant to be a luxury job?



Answer
I believe SAHMs do so because [between her and her spouse] they've come up with this being the best for their family. There are as many different reasons to/not to, as there are personalities in people.

Personally, if I'm accustomed to taking vacations, I'd want to continue to be able to take vacations, and I don't think you'd think that was "selfish", if it were in reverse... Seriously, would you consider it selfish if he says "I want you to continue working so that I can have luxury vacations..."?

Personally, I've clipped coupons before, and it's really quite the pain to do so. You have to watch expiration dates, whether or not you have the correct item/size/amount, you have to deal with stores being out of those items [and not offering replacements or rain-checks]. I did it just as a way of saving money, not necessarily because I had to. I just found with all the time it took to cut coupons, cypher through them to see which ones are "usable", and tracking everything else that coupon clipping deals with, it was more of a waste of time, than money I was "saving".

Is there a limit on how tan some people can get?




Chelsea


I'm kind of pale and can burn easily at first if I don't wear spf, but once I get a base tan I won't really burn anymore. However, when I get that "base tan" it seems like I don't really get darker at all afterwards? Not even a sunburn or anything. So I was just curious if there is a limit on how tan a person can get?
Thanks, any answers are appreciated!



Answer
TAN OBSESSION: "When I see a woman with bronzed skin, I look at it the way you might picture the inside of a smoker's lungs," says Dr. Ellen Marmur, MD., associate professor of dermatology @ the Mt. Sinai Medical Center in NYC.

~ Glamour May 2012

Tanning comes & go, unless you do them everyday 24/7. But in the end the only thing you'll benefit is either moles, freckles, skin tags or discolorations from sunscreens, lotions, etc. and the more you do, the more they get larger, darker & bumpier, even skin diseases like Bullous Pemphegoid or Discoid Lupus. Like exercising, your muscles will sag, when suddenly you stopped, same with getting a tan, they will fade.

Tanning, is a result for 'damaged skin' and no products can reverse you from skin cancer or damaged skin, may prevent you from pre-mature aging, but that's part of the billion dollar beauty industry. To get super than you will have to be tanning for @ least 60 years, George Hamilton & Tom Jones are two examples, who ARE super tan! Google them.

Melanoma is the leading cause of death from skin disease. An estimated 76,259 new cases of skin cancer will be reported particularly among women in their 20's & 30's, and that's 6,020 more than 2011, people died from the disease, according to the National Cancer Institute. Two million people are diagnosed with skin cancer in the US each year, according to the EPA's Sun-Wise Program. That's more than breast, colon, lung and prostate cancer cases combine!

Lotions does not protect you from nasty, painful burns. Lotions does not protect you from skin cancer. Lotions does not protect you from skin diseases. Lotions does not protect you from discolorations - permanently. And lotions does not protect you from skin tags, freckles, moles, they will only get larger, darker, and bumpier as they are exposed from UV.

Watch Mirror, Mirror when the evil queen played by Julia Roberts wanted to look as fair as the princess played by Lily Collins. I came from a vacay in Ireland, and many of the people there working in the profession (luxury hotels and banks, etc.) have beautiful white complexion!
This is what beautiful flawless skin looks like:
http://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/dos-and-donts/hairstyle-pictures-today/2012/05/15/zooey-deschanel-side-swept-chocolate-curls
Google Liv Tyler. http://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=liv+tyler&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8
Or Google Catherine Zeta Jones - she's 42 with beautiful skin.
Watch The Duchess - Keira Knightly has flawless complexion - a natural beauty.

I've been protecting myself from the sun since age 9, but no matter, I got Discoid Lupus. Google that one. It was like someone punched my chin and it gave a purplish mark. It took 12 years for that to fade, so now I'm using a wide brim hat or umbrella for protection. Gene Simmons & Shannon both have been seen hold an umbrella during an event. They were invented before beauty products, for a reason. Google also Bullous Pemphegoid, photos, another skin disorder.

Take the Skin Picture Quiz - Identify These Common Skin Conditions on MedicineNet.




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