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So I am probably going to offend alot of people with this, so stop reading if you are sensitive on this subject. Firstly I am 21 and I grew up in a small town and 95% of my girlfriends from school have had kids already, starting when we were 16. I always thought that we would grow up, move to the city, go to uni, just have fun being young together. But I was the only one that did this, now when I see them I feel like im the odd one out becaue I dont have kids?? What??? Im sorry but this is not normal, healthy or good for them or the kid. Why has this become so prevalent? I just think its stupid, they cant really afford to have kids or know how to raise children, most dont even have a male around and the ones that do are going out with neanderthals.
Anyway I just want to know what everyone else thinks about this? If you disagree please let me know any explain why?
Batty, the only reason I am upset about this issue, is because I feel like I have lost my best friends, we went down two different paths and unfortunatley we all grew apart and that makes me sad because we were so close.
Cathy, firstly I am just expressing what my thoughts are to see what other people think about this.
Secondly you say "What we all need to do is stop passing judgment on one another and help and learn to educate each other and love each other" It kinda sounds like you passing judgement on me for asking this question.? hmmm
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I'm from a small town too, about 700 people in the town where I'm from. I also had my first baby at 17. My little sister graduated in 2002. Out of the 13 girls in her class.....11 of them had 14 kids by the year 2000. I'll tell you right now my opinion.....They're all getting pregnant, because they're too lazy to find something fun, other than sex, to do on the weekends! Ha ha......pathetic excuse, I know. I know it's tough to watch your friends wonder from the path you thought you'd always take together, but that's just part of growing up I think. After my baby was born, I didn't really have any friends. Unlike most the other girls I went to high school with, my dad didn't go to work and support my baby. My mother didn't stay home to watch my little boy while I remained on the basketball team or the cheerleading squad. When everyone else was at junior prom, I was working a double shift, trying to save up, for things I knew my baby would need.
I think the problem here is.....yes you're all young. The difference is, while they're still young, they've been forced to grow up and be adults. You on the other hand, still get to be young. You don't have the responsibilities that they have. Now I'm not saying that you're not responsible, or all grown up.....but you have a luxury that moms do not.....free time. There's nothing stopping you, if you want to go to a club Friday night, but us young mothers have to stay home, bathe babies, and put them to sleep.
Like I said I was a young mom, I'm still a young mom. I had my first at 17, I got married at 19, had my second right before I turned 21, and then had twins 9 days before my 23rd brithday. Then I had my tubes tied, because I'm done having babies. So here I am, 24, with four kids. There are times would I would love to go out with my friends, and pretend that I'm a young, carefree 24 year old young lady......but that's just not the case for me. Most of the women I relate to are older, because MOST women my age, have no idea what it's like to have four kids. But this is the life I chose. Honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. I like to look at it this way. I'm young, I have my babies, and now I have the engery to raise them and someday....many years from now I'll have the engery (I hope) to play with my grandbabies. (My role model is my great grandfather, who passed away a year and half ago at the age of 97. The Christmas before he died, he got in the floor and played with my oldest two (I was pregnant with the twins at the time.) 95 and in the floor playing with my babies! I want to be young enough to play with my kids, and their kids, and their kids kids. Besides look at it the other way. There are people out there having kids in their late fourties and early fifties. In some cases older than that. How old are they gonna be when their child graduates high school? It goes both ways, and you have to do what's right for you.
Go out, have fun, be young. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. But me, I'm going to stay home, and play with my babies, and there's nothing wrong with that either.
I'm from a small town too, about 700 people in the town where I'm from. I also had my first baby at 17. My little sister graduated in 2002. Out of the 13 girls in her class.....11 of them had 14 kids by the year 2000. I'll tell you right now my opinion.....They're all getting pregnant, because they're too lazy to find something fun, other than sex, to do on the weekends! Ha ha......pathetic excuse, I know. I know it's tough to watch your friends wonder from the path you thought you'd always take together, but that's just part of growing up I think. After my baby was born, I didn't really have any friends. Unlike most the other girls I went to high school with, my dad didn't go to work and support my baby. My mother didn't stay home to watch my little boy while I remained on the basketball team or the cheerleading squad. When everyone else was at junior prom, I was working a double shift, trying to save up, for things I knew my baby would need.
I think the problem here is.....yes you're all young. The difference is, while they're still young, they've been forced to grow up and be adults. You on the other hand, still get to be young. You don't have the responsibilities that they have. Now I'm not saying that you're not responsible, or all grown up.....but you have a luxury that moms do not.....free time. There's nothing stopping you, if you want to go to a club Friday night, but us young mothers have to stay home, bathe babies, and put them to sleep.
Like I said I was a young mom, I'm still a young mom. I had my first at 17, I got married at 19, had my second right before I turned 21, and then had twins 9 days before my 23rd brithday. Then I had my tubes tied, because I'm done having babies. So here I am, 24, with four kids. There are times would I would love to go out with my friends, and pretend that I'm a young, carefree 24 year old young lady......but that's just not the case for me. Most of the women I relate to are older, because MOST women my age, have no idea what it's like to have four kids. But this is the life I chose. Honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. I like to look at it this way. I'm young, I have my babies, and now I have the engery to raise them and someday....many years from now I'll have the engery (I hope) to play with my grandbabies. (My role model is my great grandfather, who passed away a year and half ago at the age of 97. The Christmas before he died, he got in the floor and played with my oldest two (I was pregnant with the twins at the time.) 95 and in the floor playing with my babies! I want to be young enough to play with my kids, and their kids, and their kids kids. Besides look at it the other way. There are people out there having kids in their late fourties and early fifties. In some cases older than that. How old are they gonna be when their child graduates high school? It goes both ways, and you have to do what's right for you.
Go out, have fun, be young. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. But me, I'm going to stay home, and play with my babies, and there's nothing wrong with that either.
Who would love to see Susan Boyle take on Miley Cyrus?
Susan would kick her a**. I just think it would be funny to watch
if you dont know who susan boyle is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY
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While Miley, in all honesty is not void from talent, Susan is in another league. It is like comparing a compact car to a luxury car. Taylor Swift already performed with Miley, which showed Taylor is a far better singer. I am not a Miley fan, but do see there is talent even though it is not my style or taste in music. I think the largest charm of Susan is her looks and how the audience reacted when she first came on the stage and how her inner beauty shined through with both her voice and how excited and humbled she was over the comments of the judges. She really didn't expect the react and was ready to walk off the stage with the feeling of accomplishing singing in front of a large crowd. She didn't think they would take her seriously for one minute. I think she was used to the negative reaction due to her looks. Miley, on the other hand is a young lady that has grown to have a huge ego problem and although she has a pleasant look (not a beauty), she sees herself as above what she really is due to the positive reaction she has received throughout the past few years from the tweeny generation. Cudos to Susan, I see her having her looks altered to fit the Hollywood standard unfortunately, but at least she is going to live her dream which she had to put on hold to assist her mother. It's never too late, go Susan.
While Miley, in all honesty is not void from talent, Susan is in another league. It is like comparing a compact car to a luxury car. Taylor Swift already performed with Miley, which showed Taylor is a far better singer. I am not a Miley fan, but do see there is talent even though it is not my style or taste in music. I think the largest charm of Susan is her looks and how the audience reacted when she first came on the stage and how her inner beauty shined through with both her voice and how excited and humbled she was over the comments of the judges. She really didn't expect the react and was ready to walk off the stage with the feeling of accomplishing singing in front of a large crowd. She didn't think they would take her seriously for one minute. I think she was used to the negative reaction due to her looks. Miley, on the other hand is a young lady that has grown to have a huge ego problem and although she has a pleasant look (not a beauty), she sees herself as above what she really is due to the positive reaction she has received throughout the past few years from the tweeny generation. Cudos to Susan, I see her having her looks altered to fit the Hollywood standard unfortunately, but at least she is going to live her dream which she had to put on hold to assist her mother. It's never too late, go Susan.
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