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I lived with this guy as roommates in an apartment for about 6 months. We're still friends, but he has a serious GF, and we've never even talked about anything even remotely sexual.
Well, the other night he was drunk and just asked me out of the blue if I ever thought about making out with him or sleeping with him when we lived together.
I don't really understand why he would want to know this? Should I just ignore it and continue being friends?
Answer
As you know, alcohol is a depressant and can remove some inhibitions temporarily (example: That horrible night you started singing 'You're the Best' by Joe the Bean Esposito after a night of jello shots watching the Karate Kid movie marathon). The fact that your friend was drunk probably means that he had a sudden urge to know your answer and it has nothing to do with his relationship with his girlfriend.
Being a guy, I can honestly say that we usually keep our mouths shut when expressing sexual interest can screw (no pun intended) something up for us at home or work. So, since you are no longer in a living situation with this guy and he's known you for a while, it might simply be something he wanted to know. It's not necessarily an indication that he wants to sleep with you as much as reinforcement of his own ego.
If this friend brings up the question again or makes some further indications he has the hots for you, gently reinforce your friendship and that you were happier not knowing his sexual interest in you. You could also tell him to cool it or you'll stop being friends, or sever the relationship altogether. I have a feeling he'll be more embarassed than anything else - having a friend that is a girl while dating another woman is all to rare a luxury for guys and I'd personally be upset with myself if putting my foot in my mouth like that ruined a perfectly good friendship.
As you know, alcohol is a depressant and can remove some inhibitions temporarily (example: That horrible night you started singing 'You're the Best' by Joe the Bean Esposito after a night of jello shots watching the Karate Kid movie marathon). The fact that your friend was drunk probably means that he had a sudden urge to know your answer and it has nothing to do with his relationship with his girlfriend.
Being a guy, I can honestly say that we usually keep our mouths shut when expressing sexual interest can screw (no pun intended) something up for us at home or work. So, since you are no longer in a living situation with this guy and he's known you for a while, it might simply be something he wanted to know. It's not necessarily an indication that he wants to sleep with you as much as reinforcement of his own ego.
If this friend brings up the question again or makes some further indications he has the hots for you, gently reinforce your friendship and that you were happier not knowing his sexual interest in you. You could also tell him to cool it or you'll stop being friends, or sever the relationship altogether. I have a feeling he'll be more embarassed than anything else - having a friend that is a girl while dating another woman is all to rare a luxury for guys and I'd personally be upset with myself if putting my foot in my mouth like that ruined a perfectly good friendship.
Will God reward my two friends equally?
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Will God reward my two friends equally?
My male friend is a poor man from a poor family and he has a learning disability and he is currently unemployed and is unable to find a job and he still lives at home with his family, he shows alot of heart and compassion towards his friendships and will do anything in the world for his friends, he loves his friends the way Jesus Christ loves each and every one of us and he's not afraid to show his love towards his friends, he is very hyperactive and gets wound up very easily, his only means of transportation is getting around by bus and bicycle, sadly people tend to shun him cause of his overly hyperactive attitude and him showing a ton of compassion towards his friends.
My female friend is a rich wealthy woman from a rich wealthy family and she works for a public relations company and lives in a nice condo overlooking a huge lake, has lots of nice clothes, owns a nice luxury car and gets to go to alot of rock concerts, she does care for her friends and people tend to adore her cause of her laid back personality, she shows a good amount of compassion towards her friends but is more laid back and easygoing about how she feels and she would do anything in the world for her friends, she has helped another poor man (another person) with a learning disability to find confidence in himself and she also helped the same poor man accomplish more out of life.
I'm not sure what my male friend's religious status is but my female friend is a Catholic and she has accepted Christ as her saviour.
Also will both of these two people experience the same amount of peace, joy, love and happiness when they enter the Kingdom of Heaven?
Answer
Your friends remind me of a Bible story about a rich man and Lazarus...
By believing in Jesus and being âsavedâ the wanking Bible writers tell you that you will get one of the first seats in Heaven to watch how the vast majority of all the human beings perhaps into the TRILLIONS including your âunsavedâ family members and old acquaintances will be especially tormented one by one in a sulfuric lake of fire or what have you for ever and ever. You will be encouraged to poke fun at them actually by showing a wet big finger sticking up for them to lick to quench their thirst because Jesus says that in Hell there is no fresh water and you can tease them all you want for ever and ever! Thatâs HEAVEN! No wonder Jesus said that you must hate your father and your mother and everybody else to follow him, especially if they are "unsaved" and go to HELL! You will hear a lot of âI told you soâ¦â from Sweet Jesus! Amen? He thought of everything even some low IQ teasing games that WE CAN ALL PLAY with the damned in Hell! Heaven is for the childlike poor and uneducated so please bear with me in this story written by the wanking authors of Godâs Holy Word, the Bible!
Luke 16:23-25-NIV (Jesus is telling usâ¦) AND BEING IN TORMENTS IN HELL, he* (*Not a gay person, or a Godless Atheist, or and abortionist, but a rich Jewish person whom Jesus knew personally! In those days to be rich was the fad sin of the day.) lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom* (*If you go to Hell you will recognize EVERYBODY in Heaven especially your family members, and vise versa!). âThen he cried and said, âFather Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus that he may dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue; FOR I AM TORMENTED IN THIS FLAME.â (and Jesus all excited and turned on like mad continues the story telling⦠BTW, at this point you can tell the necessary IQ level to believe all this crap âin your heart!â Christians love Jesus!) But Abraham said, âSon* (*Abraham was an ancestor of this rich man! Notice how little compassion any member of your own family will have on you when you end up in Hell!), remember that in your lifetime you received your good things* (*again. in this story to be rich is a sin! Christian preachers now use it to make it applicable to ANY SIN!), and likewise Lazarus evil things; but now he is comforted* (* for all eternity, for ever and ever, and ever! billions and trillions of yearsâ¦!) and YOU ARE TORMENTED!
Believe it or not, there is hardly any other specific description in the Bible of what else any Christian will be doing in Heaven except for âworshipingâ this narcissist Bible God DAY AND NIGHT for ever and ever while poking fun at the damned in Hellâ¦!!! Christians need to forget that the Bible writers are telling us that during the âCreation Weekâ as soon as God created Heaven and the angels 1/3 of them were not one bit impressed with Godâs beauty and Holiness and rebelled against him on the spot under the leadership of Lucifer* (*Light Bearer â The most beautiful Angel ever created!) and they became Demons and Satan, and so on.
The Bible God promised the Jews to be ârich lenders and not borrowersâ like this rich man in Hell, otherwise IF THEY DONâT OBEY they will be poor âslaves and borrowersâ like Lazarus in Heaven! I know it sounds screwy, but what the heck thatâs the story that the Bible writers managed to say! Thatâs why I get a lot of email telling me that not everything in the Bible should be taken literally⦠short of seriously! Especially the silly teasing words that Sweet Jesus aka âCreator of the Universeâ will personally enjoy hearing and watching the Christians POKE AT ALL THOSE IN HELL FOR EVER AND EVER for not believing in Jesus, or for never hearing about him, or not having the mental faculties in order to accept Jesus, or not being obedient to the clergy, or not being respectful at all the Christian religious displays in public places, or not paying the tithes and offerings ON TIME! It will be a long time before anybody in Heaven can possibly get bored! Only Jesus knows what other torments await for those in HELLâ¦!!! Low IQ people will love to be entertained for ever and ever like that⦠or wouldnât they? Thatâs about the only hope that they have on being right on anything! What the heck! It is all in the Bible that Christians hardly read!
Luke 19:27 (NIV) (Sweet Jesus is very excited telling this other story, too!) But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over themâbring them here AND KILL THEM IN FRONT OF ME!* (*Not even the Mafia measures up to Jesus! Christianity surely is a âslaughter houseâ religion and the preachers know how to profit out of it!)
Revelation 14:10-11 (NIV) [Jesus says] "he, too, will drink of the wine of God's fury, which has been poured full strength into the cup of his wrath. HE WILL BE TORMENTED WITH BURNING SULFUR IN THE PRESENCE OF THE HOLY ANGELS AND OF THE LAMB* (*i.e. Sweet Jesus Christ, and the Christians who managed to be saved in spite of all the hurdles that Jesus set up -John 17:24 will enjoy watching!) And THE SMOKE OF THEIR TORMENT RISES FOR EVER AND EVER. There is no rest day or night for those who worship the beast and his image, or for anyone who receives the mark of his name."
At the same time The Christians will be worshipping God day and Night WITHOUT REST FOR EVER AND EVER AND EVER⦠Just how narcissist can the Bible God possibly get?
Revelation 4:8-9 (KJV) â¦and they REST NOT DAY AND NIGHT, saying, Holy, holy, holy, Lord God Almighty, which was, and is, and is to come* (*thatâs also some stuff that the Christians will be doing for ever and ever and ever when they get to Heaven). And when those beasts give glory and honour and thanks to him that sat on the throne, who liveth for ever and ever, The four and twenty elders fall down before him that sat on the throne, and worship him that liveth for ever and ever, and cast their crowns before the throneâ¦
In reality there is no Heaven or Hell, God or Devil outside of the Bible. Even some the most honest Bible writers say so, too. The whole idea is a very primitive religious people control device and a money making scheme banking on human gullibility!
Ecclesiastes 9:5,10 (NIV)
[5] For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing; they have no further reward* (*The grave is the final reward!), and even the memory of them is forgotten* (*Not true in all cases, but what the heck thatâs what some primitive Bible writers knew at that time! Although Ecclesiastes was written by King Solomon, the wisest man ever to set foot on this Earth! Not even God the Son Jesus Christ was as wise as King Shlomo!). [10] WHATEVER your hand finds to do, DO IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT* (*without any restriction just be wise!), for in the grave, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom* (*Praise the LORD! Amen?).
Ecclesiastes 3:19 (NIV)
Man's fate is like that of the animals; the same fate awaits them both: As one dies, so dies the other. All have the same breath; man has no advantage over the animal. Everything is vanity.
The writers of the Book of Job admitted the same destiny for humankindâ¦
Job 7:9 (NIV)
As a cloud vanishes and is goneâ¦
so he who goes down to the grave does not returnâ¦
In spite of all these verses in the Bible that speak loud and clear about humanityâs final destiny Christians are still giving me a thumb-down. Christians are very selective in what they want to believe from the Bible. That is why Christians have so many Church brands to choose from!
Your friends remind me of a Bible story about a rich man and Lazarus...
By believing in Jesus and being âsavedâ the wanking Bible writers tell you that you will get one of the first seats in Heaven to watch how the vast majority of all the human beings perhaps into the TRILLIONS including your âunsavedâ family members and old acquaintances will be especially tormented one by one in a sulfuric lake of fire or what have you for ever and ever. You will be encouraged to poke fun at them actually by showing a wet big finger sticking up for them to lick to quench their thirst because Jesus says that in Hell there is no fresh water and you can tease them all you want for ever and ever! Thatâs HEAVEN! No wonder Jesus said that you must hate your father and your mother and everybody else to follow him, especially if they are "unsaved" and go to HELL! You will hear a lot of âI told you soâ¦â from Sweet Jesus! Amen? He thought of everything even some low IQ teasing games that WE CAN ALL PLAY with the damned in Hell! Heaven is for the childlike poor and uneducated so please bear with me in this story written by the wanking authors of Godâs Holy Word, the Bible!
Luke 16:23-25-NIV (Jesus is telling usâ¦) AND BEING IN TORMENTS IN HELL, he* (*Not a gay person, or a Godless Atheist, or and abortionist, but a rich Jewish person whom Jesus knew personally! In those days to be rich was the fad sin of the day.) lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom* (*If you go to Hell you will recognize EVERYBODY in Heaven especially your family members, and vise versa!). âThen he cried and said, âFather Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus that he may dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue; FOR I AM TORMENTED IN THIS FLAME.â (and Jesus all excited and turned on like mad continues the story telling⦠BTW, at this point you can tell the necessary IQ level to believe all this crap âin your heart!â Christians love Jesus!) But Abraham said, âSon* (*Abraham was an ancestor of this rich man! Notice how little compassion any member of your own family will have on you when you end up in Hell!), remember that in your lifetime you received your good things* (*again. in this story to be rich is a sin! Christian preachers now use it to make it applicable to ANY SIN!), and likewise Lazarus evil things; but now he is comforted* (* for all eternity, for ever and ever, and ever! billions and trillions of yearsâ¦!) and YOU ARE TORMENTED!
Believe it or not, there is hardly any other specific description in the Bible of what else any Christian will be doing in Heaven except for âworshipingâ this narcissist Bible God DAY AND NIGHT for ever and ever while poking fun at the damned in Hellâ¦!!! Christians need to forget that the Bible writers are telling us that during the âCreation Weekâ as soon as God created Heaven and the angels 1/3 of them were not one bit impressed with Godâs beauty and Holiness and rebelled against him on the spot under the leadership of Lucifer* (*Light Bearer â The most beautiful Angel ever created!) and they became Demons and Satan, and so on.
The Bible God promised the Jews to be ârich lenders and not borrowersâ like this rich man in Hell, otherwise IF THEY DONâT OBEY they will be poor âslaves and borrowersâ like Lazarus in Heaven! I know it sounds screwy, but what the heck thatâs the story that the Bible writers managed to say! Thatâs why I get a lot of email telling me that not everything in the Bible should be taken literally⦠short of seriously! Especially the silly teasing words that Sweet Jesus aka âCreator of the Universeâ will personally enjoy hearing and watching the Christians POKE AT ALL THOSE IN HELL FOR EVER AND EVER for not believing in Jesus, or for never hearing about him, or not having the mental faculties in order to accept Jesus, or not being obedient to the clergy, or not being respectful at all the Christian religious displays in public places, or not paying the tithes and offerings ON TIME! It will be a long time before anybody in Heaven can possibly get bored! Only Jesus knows what other torments await for those in HELLâ¦!!! Low IQ people will love to be entertained for ever and ever like that⦠or wouldnât they? Thatâs about the only hope that they have on being right on anything! What the heck! It is all in the Bible that Christians hardly read!
Luke 19:27 (NIV) (Sweet Jesus is very excited telling this other story, too!) But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over themâbring them here AND KILL THEM IN FRONT OF ME!* (*Not even the Mafia measures up to Jesus! Christianity surely is a âslaughter houseâ religion and the preachers know how to profit out of it!)
Revelation 14:10-11 (NIV) [Jesus says] "he, too, will drink of the wine of God's fury, which has been poured full strength into the cup of his wrath. HE WILL BE TORMENTED WITH BURNING SULFUR IN THE PRESENCE OF THE HOLY ANGELS AND OF THE LAMB* (*i.e. Sweet Jesus Christ, and the Christians who managed to be saved in spite of all the hurdles that Jesus set up -John 17:24 will enjoy watching!) And THE SMOKE OF THEIR TORMENT RISES FOR EVER AND EVER. There is no rest day or night for those who worship the beast and his image, or for anyone who receives the mark of his name."
At the same time The Christians will be worshipping God day and Night WITHOUT REST FOR EVER AND EVER AND EVER⦠Just how narcissist can the Bible God possibly get?
Revelation 4:8-9 (KJV) â¦and they REST NOT DAY AND NIGHT, saying, Holy, holy, holy, Lord God Almighty, which was, and is, and is to come* (*thatâs also some stuff that the Christians will be doing for ever and ever and ever when they get to Heaven). And when those beasts give glory and honour and thanks to him that sat on the throne, who liveth for ever and ever, The four and twenty elders fall down before him that sat on the throne, and worship him that liveth for ever and ever, and cast their crowns before the throneâ¦
In reality there is no Heaven or Hell, God or Devil outside of the Bible. Even some the most honest Bible writers say so, too. The whole idea is a very primitive religious people control device and a money making scheme banking on human gullibility!
Ecclesiastes 9:5,10 (NIV)
[5] For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing; they have no further reward* (*The grave is the final reward!), and even the memory of them is forgotten* (*Not true in all cases, but what the heck thatâs what some primitive Bible writers knew at that time! Although Ecclesiastes was written by King Solomon, the wisest man ever to set foot on this Earth! Not even God the Son Jesus Christ was as wise as King Shlomo!). [10] WHATEVER your hand finds to do, DO IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT* (*without any restriction just be wise!), for in the grave, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom* (*Praise the LORD! Amen?).
Ecclesiastes 3:19 (NIV)
Man's fate is like that of the animals; the same fate awaits them both: As one dies, so dies the other. All have the same breath; man has no advantage over the animal. Everything is vanity.
The writers of the Book of Job admitted the same destiny for humankindâ¦
Job 7:9 (NIV)
As a cloud vanishes and is goneâ¦
so he who goes down to the grave does not returnâ¦
In spite of all these verses in the Bible that speak loud and clear about humanityâs final destiny Christians are still giving me a thumb-down. Christians are very selective in what they want to believe from the Bible. That is why Christians have so many Church brands to choose from!
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