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Q. what are your deepest held beliefs concerning how we should govern our nation? opinions pleasee
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Stop focusing on subjects like abortion,steroids in baseball, and sex scandals. We need to focus more on the economy,higher paying jobs,the environment, mending our political ties,make use of the people in our prisons to help manufacture alternative forms of energy such as wind and solar making the costs cheaper for the rest of us to buy,give the power to the people to vote out corrupt politicians that is not pulling their weight, have drug companies regulated to make much needed prescriptions more affordable. Make it law that if any politician is found to take kickbacks or payoffs from a business to benefit their own interest in any way the politician will be fired, and banned from any political office for life. We should put prisoners to death immediatly that are on death row that are guilty proven by witnesses or DNA evidence rather than sitting there for years. We should regulate big buisness such as Wal Mart that is a sell out to American jobs to make themselves more rich. We should eliminate property tax all together, and make the rich pay their fair share in taxes, while increasing taxes on alcohol,sporting events,& casino's, while giving tax breaks to restaraunts,fuel costs,and small buisness to boost retail sales that would bring us more revenue on sales taxes. We should give more tax incentives to companies that actually pay their workers better that stays here in the US. Tax rules and rates should apply to everyone equally, even if your a politician. Needless spending of money spent by our politicians needs to be massively regulated on luxury expenses and travel. Ethanol needs to be produced from a different source other than corn, and more emphasis needs to be put on hydrogen and other forms that will not effect the economy in such a bad way. Farmers need to have more controll & say over crop prices. People should be given huge tax incentives for going green for every product they buy that helps the envioronment and the economy that produces the means to be. All money from any drug busts should go back to make up for property taxes, and not in some cops pockets. Government should invest more in new ideas and make better strides to improve the legalities and costs to those who come up with new ideas, and not let big industry buy out any ideas before they are heard. People on welfare would only be on welfare only for a certain period of time nationwide, stay at home moms would only be allowed to be stay at home moms only for a certain ammount of time as well with each new baby before they are expected to get a job. If a person chooses not to work, and they have physical custody of the children that they are receiving child support for they should automatically loose the right to claim their children on their taxes, and the non custodial parent should receive it if they have joint or shared custody. It should be made law that no child should have the right to drop out of school without receiving a high school diploma, even if they are kicked out they should still do the work at home, if they do not graduate then they should not receive a drivers license untill they are 21. If a woman has the right to have an abortion, a man should have the right to not be a father but,if he gives up his rights to be a father to avoid child support then he has to have a vasectomy to do so. Repeated child molesters, and rapists should receive the death penalty automatically effective immediately, along with mass murderers and cerial killers. Infomercials should be outlawed that scam people out of their money. All programs that claim to feed the children should be closely watched and regulated to insure that a bigger part of the proceeds actually make it to the people that need it. Our government needs to do more politically with Mexico to solve the illegal immigration issue, or just make Mexico a part of the US taking advantages away from factories for cheaper labor. Marijuana should be legalized for medical purpouses, including hemp production for clothing and other materials. The lottery should have a cap for each state, if the lottery goes past a certain ammount and their is no winner then the money should go to make up for lost revenue in property taxes. And government should have no say at all in what scientist do with stem cell research when it could possibly mean curing certain diseases!!!!!Heewwww!!!! Just a few ideas off the top of my head!!!! All may not agree with every one but, I hope atleast some.
Stop focusing on subjects like abortion,steroids in baseball, and sex scandals. We need to focus more on the economy,higher paying jobs,the environment, mending our political ties,make use of the people in our prisons to help manufacture alternative forms of energy such as wind and solar making the costs cheaper for the rest of us to buy,give the power to the people to vote out corrupt politicians that is not pulling their weight, have drug companies regulated to make much needed prescriptions more affordable. Make it law that if any politician is found to take kickbacks or payoffs from a business to benefit their own interest in any way the politician will be fired, and banned from any political office for life. We should put prisoners to death immediatly that are on death row that are guilty proven by witnesses or DNA evidence rather than sitting there for years. We should regulate big buisness such as Wal Mart that is a sell out to American jobs to make themselves more rich. We should eliminate property tax all together, and make the rich pay their fair share in taxes, while increasing taxes on alcohol,sporting events,& casino's, while giving tax breaks to restaraunts,fuel costs,and small buisness to boost retail sales that would bring us more revenue on sales taxes. We should give more tax incentives to companies that actually pay their workers better that stays here in the US. Tax rules and rates should apply to everyone equally, even if your a politician. Needless spending of money spent by our politicians needs to be massively regulated on luxury expenses and travel. Ethanol needs to be produced from a different source other than corn, and more emphasis needs to be put on hydrogen and other forms that will not effect the economy in such a bad way. Farmers need to have more controll & say over crop prices. People should be given huge tax incentives for going green for every product they buy that helps the envioronment and the economy that produces the means to be. All money from any drug busts should go back to make up for property taxes, and not in some cops pockets. Government should invest more in new ideas and make better strides to improve the legalities and costs to those who come up with new ideas, and not let big industry buy out any ideas before they are heard. People on welfare would only be on welfare only for a certain period of time nationwide, stay at home moms would only be allowed to be stay at home moms only for a certain ammount of time as well with each new baby before they are expected to get a job. If a person chooses not to work, and they have physical custody of the children that they are receiving child support for they should automatically loose the right to claim their children on their taxes, and the non custodial parent should receive it if they have joint or shared custody. It should be made law that no child should have the right to drop out of school without receiving a high school diploma, even if they are kicked out they should still do the work at home, if they do not graduate then they should not receive a drivers license untill they are 21. If a woman has the right to have an abortion, a man should have the right to not be a father but,if he gives up his rights to be a father to avoid child support then he has to have a vasectomy to do so. Repeated child molesters, and rapists should receive the death penalty automatically effective immediately, along with mass murderers and cerial killers. Infomercials should be outlawed that scam people out of their money. All programs that claim to feed the children should be closely watched and regulated to insure that a bigger part of the proceeds actually make it to the people that need it. Our government needs to do more politically with Mexico to solve the illegal immigration issue, or just make Mexico a part of the US taking advantages away from factories for cheaper labor. Marijuana should be legalized for medical purpouses, including hemp production for clothing and other materials. The lottery should have a cap for each state, if the lottery goes past a certain ammount and their is no winner then the money should go to make up for lost revenue in property taxes. And government should have no say at all in what scientist do with stem cell research when it could possibly mean curing certain diseases!!!!!Heewwww!!!! Just a few ideas off the top of my head!!!! All may not agree with every one but, I hope atleast some.
How do i tell my mom that i don't want to sleep in her disgusting house?
Pipper
I am in my third trimester of pregnancy and am visiting my family and relatives. My moms house is embarrassing and very disgusting. My old bed smells like cat pee and I'm sure has tons of bed bugs so I have to resort to sleeping on the dog stenched couch which is very uncomfortable on my back being as far along as I am with my pregnancy. The fact is, in just the year I've been gone and moved out my moms house has gotten worse. She's in her early thirties and, talking from life-long experience, is lazy as hell and never cleans anything. For people who need deeper insight into my situation: her fridge is filled with spoiled leftovers and smells extremely bad, there is dried dog poop in the laundry room, every counter and table is toppled over with junk, i have to smell her extra blankets to see which one is clean because even though they are folded and put in a closet they are not fresh, and her once stark white carpet is now brown and smells of pet urine. I would like to sleep at my mother-in-laws house because she has a guest bed that is big and always dressed in fresh bedding (not to mention she's a clean freak so everything is squeaky clean). The only problem is that my mom has developed a jealous hatred for my MIL because she has helped me out more in the past as far as dealing with my parents divorce and helping me pay for any extras with my wedding. I don't know how to tell my mom that I'm going to sleep at my MIL's house and also tell her (in the future) that I don't want my child to stay at her thilthy house until she either cleans it herself or has it professionally cleaned. Any advice?
Answer
Yes. GET A MOTEL ROOM. Married and in your third trimester of pregnancy, you need a place where you and your husband can relax and have some alone time. That is all the explanation you need to give to anyone. This should be your tradition going forward. You are no longer children, and you need to have your own "space". I realize that it is an added expense, but you can shop around and find some fairly decent rooms for an affordable price. My husband and I often stay at a motel, even when visiting family. We prefer a "suite" when available, accessed from the outside rather than going through a lobby, with microwave, refrigerator and king size bed. We watch for a breakfast buffet, which can save a lot of money. We find the more economical places tend to have these facilities, while more expensive hotels have smaller rooms and try to steer you towards room service. We usually hit the grocery store when we hit town, and grab drinks and some microwavable snacks. Groceries stores are more affordable than fast food, and more convenient besides.
Staying in a motel could save you from a dangerous illness or infection that could be dangerous for you in your pregnancy (worth every penny). It could help to keep the peace in the family (worth every penny). And, you will have the luxury, after a day visiting the fam, of returning to your motel room and taking off your social smiles, and de-stressing and enjoying some well-earned privacy and relaxation (again, worth every penny). A motel will often have gym equipment, which your husband might enjoy, and when you aren't pregnant, you might find one where you can have a quick soak in the hot tub.
You can visit the MIL at her house during the day, and offer to take your mother out, since her home is not fit for visiting.
Your mother is mentally ill. The technical term for your mother's behavior is "hoarding", and that makes her a "hoarder". Your mother has chosen not to seek help for her condition, and her choices have consequences. The problem has gotten so bad that it is no longer healthy for people to visit her or stay with her in the home. It's not your fault, and it not even be her fault that she is mentally ill (but it is her choice not to seek treatment). It is important for you to show respect and affection for her, and offer her emotional support, but it is expecting too much for you to politely sit in a living room, surrounded by feces, pretending that you are enjoying yourself, while scared to death that you will contract a deadly infection that will kill your unborn child. Pregnant women aren't even supposed to change a litter box, for gosh sakes!!!
You do not have to tell her that her house is disgusting. That would be unkind and impolite. Simply tell her that you and your husband will be more comfortable in a motel. If she presses, and you want to offer her something more, explain that you feel you will sleep better there (true), and that you and your husband need some alone time (also true).
If you get a private moment with the MIL, thank her for the invitation, and give her the same explanation. Try not to bring your Mom into it, if possible. There is enough tension there, without the MIL believing that it is your Mom's fault that you won't stay with her. Just be an independent married couple, and leave it at that.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!!! And, congrats!!! Please get yourself your own space. You NEED this.
Yes. GET A MOTEL ROOM. Married and in your third trimester of pregnancy, you need a place where you and your husband can relax and have some alone time. That is all the explanation you need to give to anyone. This should be your tradition going forward. You are no longer children, and you need to have your own "space". I realize that it is an added expense, but you can shop around and find some fairly decent rooms for an affordable price. My husband and I often stay at a motel, even when visiting family. We prefer a "suite" when available, accessed from the outside rather than going through a lobby, with microwave, refrigerator and king size bed. We watch for a breakfast buffet, which can save a lot of money. We find the more economical places tend to have these facilities, while more expensive hotels have smaller rooms and try to steer you towards room service. We usually hit the grocery store when we hit town, and grab drinks and some microwavable snacks. Groceries stores are more affordable than fast food, and more convenient besides.
Staying in a motel could save you from a dangerous illness or infection that could be dangerous for you in your pregnancy (worth every penny). It could help to keep the peace in the family (worth every penny). And, you will have the luxury, after a day visiting the fam, of returning to your motel room and taking off your social smiles, and de-stressing and enjoying some well-earned privacy and relaxation (again, worth every penny). A motel will often have gym equipment, which your husband might enjoy, and when you aren't pregnant, you might find one where you can have a quick soak in the hot tub.
You can visit the MIL at her house during the day, and offer to take your mother out, since her home is not fit for visiting.
Your mother is mentally ill. The technical term for your mother's behavior is "hoarding", and that makes her a "hoarder". Your mother has chosen not to seek help for her condition, and her choices have consequences. The problem has gotten so bad that it is no longer healthy for people to visit her or stay with her in the home. It's not your fault, and it not even be her fault that she is mentally ill (but it is her choice not to seek treatment). It is important for you to show respect and affection for her, and offer her emotional support, but it is expecting too much for you to politely sit in a living room, surrounded by feces, pretending that you are enjoying yourself, while scared to death that you will contract a deadly infection that will kill your unborn child. Pregnant women aren't even supposed to change a litter box, for gosh sakes!!!
You do not have to tell her that her house is disgusting. That would be unkind and impolite. Simply tell her that you and your husband will be more comfortable in a motel. If she presses, and you want to offer her something more, explain that you feel you will sleep better there (true), and that you and your husband need some alone time (also true).
If you get a private moment with the MIL, thank her for the invitation, and give her the same explanation. Try not to bring your Mom into it, if possible. There is enough tension there, without the MIL believing that it is your Mom's fault that you won't stay with her. Just be an independent married couple, and leave it at that.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!!! And, congrats!!! Please get yourself your own space. You NEED this.
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