Friday, December 20, 2013

What do you think, what is it like being a Muslim parent?

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whose kids don't follow Islam? Inspired by this sad story: http://www.emirates247.com/crime/region/for-family-honour-mom-kills-self-two-daughters-2013-05-06-1.505235 Muslim mother douses her two daughters in kerosene and burns them alive for dating and staying out too late.

She probably felt guilty. Or maybe she didn't know about it and just freaked out after seeing them doing bad things. It's a scary thought. You love them, you provide for them, you give them everything they want and they still end up sinning behind your back :/



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That's sad. Really sad. May Allah forgive their sins, save them from the torment of grave and hellfire and grant them a place in jannah, ameen. On to the question, I think it's agonizing for the parents to know that their kids are far from Islam, but that's only if the parents are themselves Muslims in every sense of the word. What I noticed in the up given story is that the mom was more concerned with the reputation of the family and what neighbours say, when she should be worried about what Allah will say. Unluckily parents ingrain fear of the world in their children's heart instead of the fear and love for Allah. Had she taught them the commandments of Allah regarding man-woman relationship and the logic behind it (though there shouldn't be any need of logic when it comes to faith but duh ! We Muslims blindly believe the world is ending on 21st dec 2012 but when it's Islam we need logic), the odds of this unfortunate incidence occurring would have been nearly zero. Secondly, when a child reaches adulthood, can differentiate between good and bad then it no longer remains the responsibility of the parent to protect them from sinning all the time. And parents won't be punished for the sins that their adult kids do.
Yes she provided for them and it must have been really tough for her considering she was a single parent, the only thing that pinched her was family reputation and people gossiping. All the acts of the daughters were between them and Allah. He is watching them. He had decided their fate for hereafter. She could have kicked the girls out of her house, confiscated all the luxuries and demanded all the money that she spent on them. That's one way to compensate for the loss with fear of the world as a context. On the other hand, if a parent is truly afraid of Allah, they'd depict Islam through their own actions first of all, take their kids to Islamic lectures, dicuss Quranic verses and hadiths in the house, tell them narrations and stories from the times of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) etc instead of burning yourself and your offsprings alive. I believe Islam is the only remedy to bring lost souls back on track. Understandably she was hurt and upset but that doesn't give her the right to decide the punishment and take the life of her daughters. One shouldn't do or avoid anything from the fear of this mortal world. Keep your eye at The Owner

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What's up guys. I'm super pale, like the lowest number you can find in makeups, and I have acne, blemishes, and the worst, veins.

First off, YUCK! You can see all these blue veins all over my chest, underarms, my entire legs, and around my face. Makeup will cover up the ones on my face, but I wouldn't think of putting that crap all over my body.

Next, I have mild acne and blemishes on my face and shoulders. I am on over-the-counter treatments that keep it under control, but it's not clear. This includes both blackheads and whiteheads.
Both my face and scalp have been extremely oily for... well as long as I can remember. I know that this causes acne, but I can't get it to go away. I wash my face 2-3 times a day and wash my hair 1-2 times a day. Within 4 hours my face is oily again (even with an oil reducing foundation), and I just bought some blotching powder like http://www.makeupgeek.com/store/face-products/face-powders/palladio-rice-powder-translucent.html

Lastly, I have terrible red bumps on my legs from shaving. Waxing is definitely not an option, and I put on cocoa butter lotion after shaving, yet the bumps don't go away! It seems like they never go away, they just sit there and look bad.I was told to use a cucumber and lemon juice paste(?) and I used that for a few months, until I ran out, there was absolutely no difference.

I am so lost with what to do. People tell me to tan and that most of these things will disappear, but I have the hardest time tanning (I can not tan enough to get one shade darker in foundations).

So:
1. How do I hide veins all around my body?
2. How to remove acne and/or decrease amount of oil produced on my face and hair?
3. How to get rid of red bumps after shaving?

Thank you



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Tanning comes & go, unless you do them everyday 24/7 for the rest of your life. But in the end the only thing you'll benefit is either moles, freckles, skin tags or discolorations from sunscreens, lotions, etc. and the more you do, the more they get larger, darker & bumpier. My nephew had a membership in a tanning bed salon for a year. After it expired, he stopped, now he's as white as before he began.

Tanning, is a result for 'damaged skin' and no products can reverse you from skin cancer or damaged skin, may prevent you from pre-mature aging, but that's part of the billion dollar beauty industry.
A new study conducted by the Indiana University School of Medicine Department of Dermatology has found that tanning bed exposure can be dangerous when tanners self-diagnose skin problems and use the radiation to treat skin eruptions. The study specifically found that a tanning bed user that used the radiation to treat a mild skin rash caused by an ibuprofen allergy developed a much more severe reaction called toxic epidermal necrolysis (TEN). When left untreated, TEN can be fatal.
Melanoma is the leading cause of death from skin disease. An estimated 76,690 new cases of skin cancer will be reported particularly among women in their 20's & 30's, and that's 6,020 more than 2011, people died from the disease, according to the National Cancer Institute. Two million people are diagnosed with skin cancer in the US each year, according to the EPA's Sun-Wise Program. That's more than breast, colon, lung and prostate cancer cases combine! Now however, a recently published study suggests that those people with ginger hair and fair complexions face a much higher risk of developing dead skin cancer even if they are completely protected.
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