Saturday, December 14, 2013

Why Cant Some Young Adults Live Above the Influence?

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It seems more and more I see younger adults and some older ones too can only have fun if they are drunk or high. This seems to speak volumes about what is happening to this country. There is so much more to life than getting high or wasted. It would be nice to also see answers to alternatives to this kinds of behavior please.


Answer
This is simple, in our society our youth have been over stimulated and thus desensitized to entertainment, and luxury. Just 75 years ago kids would be working to help support family, school was a luxury, they would not have any idle time. They watched friends and family suffer and saw what life really is. Now they spend from the time they are bvoard being " praised" for doing nothing, playing all day without a care in the world, watching tv and video games until their eyes bleed, then they sit down @ the dinner table without any concern of how the food got there or who worked to get it there. Now come adolecence. THEY ARE BOARD! they have been so spoiled they have nothing to do. They feel sorry for themselves and call their Mothers a " bitch" for not letting them stay out till 2am when they are 12. Even the smallest of problems are exaggerated in their heads and they pity and whine and want to escape, instead of learning ow to deal with it! Good Luck America, we will have a whole generation or crybaby whiners, no wonder China will be the next Superpower!

What do u do when u go 2 the store w/ more than 1 young child & u cant fit them all in 1 shopping cart?




Koozie


I dont have a babysitter, and my husband works so I have to take my kids with me. My 7 mo old sits up front in the infant seat and I have to put my 22 mo old in the basket part. He somewhat enjoys sitting there and "helping" mommy put things in the cart but can get a little out of hand somtimes and refuses to sit down. For the 1st time, which I knew would happen sooner or later, he fell out. Hes okay, dont worry, but scared me to death! Its the only way I can shop, I cant let him walk beside me because I will be chasing him all over and never get any shopping done. Our store does not have the carts with the 2 seats up front for 2 kids. And I DO NOT have the luxury of a babysitter because everyone works. Any suggestions? I distract him the best I can but Im running out of options. Hes almost 2 and doesnt quite grasp the fact of "doing what he is told" quite yet. Thanks for your help.
And its not easy dragging a second cart aroud either, tried that once. I hate putting him in the basket cuase I know its not safe unless I can keep him seated. My mom said I fell out when I was his age but I wriggled out of the belt up front!
And my 7 mo old is too big to put in an infant carrier seat ant put it over the basket part and my oldest ride up front. Thats what I used to do. She fits just right in the infant seat attached to the cart.



Answer
When mine were that little, I grocery shopped at night when they were asleep, and my husband was home.

Could you enlist a friend to do a trade, like either swap days or take turns the same day, you go and she watches your kids, then she goes and you watch her kids?

Does a nearby church offer a Mother's Day Out program you could do for 1-3 days a week, 9a-12n, depending on what you need? You'll really appreciate this time to do lots of things, like dr appts, hair cuts, working out, cleaning house, or whatever.




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