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is there such a thing as a guy who actually values emotion more
btw i mean physical as in sex not beauty geniuses
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To me there is far more than just physical attraction required for a relationship. I could love someone for who they are, because I can relate to them and converse with them and enjoy being with them yet never touch them because they are physically revolting to me. Again if I were to be physical with someone merely for their looks it is not love, only lust, and I am aware of that. I wish for a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual relationship not just one nor a combination lacking one. I want someone whom is physically attractive TO ME who can hold a conversation and get me thinking, who shares emotions on the same level as I, and is competent with their faith and believes that will not create conflict between the two of us. However many males have not reached for what I have and believe relationships are about arm-candy/eye-candy/trophy-wife or just having a good time in bed. I feel slightly opposite of most males. I prefer a smaller breasts, smaller hips, pale skin, darker hair, darker eyes, near the same height as me. However I also feel they should be smaller than me, or skinnier, it is just a male thing. The reason why I prefer someone smaller than me and in shape is because I am an active person and I can't be in a relationship where I am always waiting for someone to catch up. I don't know, males are puzzling, you can form society however you want but nature will always prevail!
Edit @ Milky-Joe regarding Edit @ land of the greedy... I am probably going to get a lot of hate from this buut... how can you speak of caveman stuff and than call sex the ultimate gift? If it were as it was back in caveman time women did not have a decision in sex, the men just did it. Men would brawl one another and the strongest would be the victor, but do you believe the woman just sat there watching and allowed the intercourse that followed? Haven't you seen the classic "hit her in the head and drag her to your cave by her hair" routine? If it were not for society and laws influenced by woman sex would not be a gift at all, but a luxury taken by the strongest males. I for one am glad we no longer live in an incestuous rape infested world, but I would never consider sex the greatest gift. If you are a woman you are empty minded because I would consider love, companionship, honesty, trust, and so on as the greatest gifts. Sex is recreational to an extent, anyone can have sex with anyone, but building a loving and honest relationship takes time and patience it is something earned and it isn't easy and for that reason I would consider those two things as the greatest gift!
To me there is far more than just physical attraction required for a relationship. I could love someone for who they are, because I can relate to them and converse with them and enjoy being with them yet never touch them because they are physically revolting to me. Again if I were to be physical with someone merely for their looks it is not love, only lust, and I am aware of that. I wish for a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual relationship not just one nor a combination lacking one. I want someone whom is physically attractive TO ME who can hold a conversation and get me thinking, who shares emotions on the same level as I, and is competent with their faith and believes that will not create conflict between the two of us. However many males have not reached for what I have and believe relationships are about arm-candy/eye-candy/trophy-wife or just having a good time in bed. I feel slightly opposite of most males. I prefer a smaller breasts, smaller hips, pale skin, darker hair, darker eyes, near the same height as me. However I also feel they should be smaller than me, or skinnier, it is just a male thing. The reason why I prefer someone smaller than me and in shape is because I am an active person and I can't be in a relationship where I am always waiting for someone to catch up. I don't know, males are puzzling, you can form society however you want but nature will always prevail!
Edit @ Milky-Joe regarding Edit @ land of the greedy... I am probably going to get a lot of hate from this buut... how can you speak of caveman stuff and than call sex the ultimate gift? If it were as it was back in caveman time women did not have a decision in sex, the men just did it. Men would brawl one another and the strongest would be the victor, but do you believe the woman just sat there watching and allowed the intercourse that followed? Haven't you seen the classic "hit her in the head and drag her to your cave by her hair" routine? If it were not for society and laws influenced by woman sex would not be a gift at all, but a luxury taken by the strongest males. I for one am glad we no longer live in an incestuous rape infested world, but I would never consider sex the greatest gift. If you are a woman you are empty minded because I would consider love, companionship, honesty, trust, and so on as the greatest gifts. Sex is recreational to an extent, anyone can have sex with anyone, but building a loving and honest relationship takes time and patience it is something earned and it isn't easy and for that reason I would consider those two things as the greatest gift!
What's the name of the movie?
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I watched a movie in french class but i cant remember the name. Its about a guy that sent letters to a woman and eventually the first time they see each other they get married. the girl later cleans out his bank account which had 28 million dollars. the name of the guy was louis. any ideas? i asked my french teacher but he didnt want to tell me,..
Answer
This reminds me of Birthday Girl (2001) -- starring Nicole Kidman, Ben Chaplin and Vincent Cassle
IMDb synopsis:
Internet love connections and mail-order brides rarely ever work out, and John should have known. Having never been lucky in the game of love and tired of waiting for the perfect woman to come along, John decides to take his chances and orders a mail-order bride from Russia online. At first, things seem perfect: his new bride Nadia is a gorgeous woman, and although she may not speak much English, her skills in the bedroom more than make up for any communication problems. When Nadia's 'cousins' unexpectedly arrive to celebrate her birthday, John is drawn into their web of corruption and crime. He, ultimately, steals ransom money (for Nadia's release) from the bank that he works at.
EDIT:
I have a second movie suggestion:
Mississippi Mermaid (1969/1970) aka La sirène du Mississipi (original title) -- starring Catherine Deneuve and Jean-Paul Belmondo
Brief Synopsis
A plantation owner''s mail-order bride turns out to be a beautiful woman with murder on her mind.
Turner Classic Movie Synopsis:
Louis Mahé, a millionaire tobacco plantation owner on the island of Réunion, has become engaged through the personals columns of a French newspaper to Julie Roussel and awaits her arrival on the steamer Mississippi. He is greeted by a young woman who surprises him by her beauty and explains that she sent her sister's photo to assure the sincerity of his intentions. They quickly marry, and Louis's adoration of his new bride makes him overlook incongruities with Julie's description of herself in her letters. One day, Louis's bride absconds after emptying his bank accounts. Louis meets Julie's sister, Berthe Roussel, who informs him that the woman he married was not Julie; together they hire a private detective, Comolli, to track down the impostor and find Berthe's sister. En route by plane to Nice, Louis is suddenly stricken ill. Recuperating in a sanitarium, he sees Julie on television, dancing at a nightclub in Antibes. He travels there and hides in her hotel room, intent on killing her. She offers no resistance, but, explaining that her name is Marion, she tells him of her past, including years spent in prison, and of her association with a heartless gangster, Richard. Richard was with her on the Mississippi when they met Julie Roussel and learned of her forthcoming marriage. He had fabricated a plot to kill Julie and send Marion in her place to rob Louis; and afterwards Richard had forced her to go through with the robbery. Louis quickly forgives Marion, and they decide to live together in France on profits from the plantation. In Aix-en-Provence their happiness is interrupted by Comolli, who has discovered Julie's murder. After trying in vain to bribe the detective to drop the case, Louis shoots him and buries him in the wine cellar of their house. He flees with Marion to Lyons, but she grows increasingly dissatisfied with their fugitive existence and longs to enjoy a life of luxury in Paris. To obtain funds, Louis returns briefly to Réunion and sells his share in the plantation, but upon his return he finds the police on their trail. They are again forced to flee, leaving behind the money; penniless, they hide out in a cabin in the French Alps, but Marion is restless and irritable. Louis becomes increasingly ill, and one day he becomes aware that Marion has been administering quantities of rat poison in his coffee. Near collapse, he makes an attempt to escape, but Marion brings him back to the cabin. He reveals his knowledge of her plan, and, urging her to fill his coffee glass, he affirms his acceptance of his fate, his lack of regrets, and his overwhelming love for her. Struck with shame, Marion knocks the glass from Louis's hand and vows to make amends. As he regains his strength, they flee the hut together into the snow.
This reminds me of Birthday Girl (2001) -- starring Nicole Kidman, Ben Chaplin and Vincent Cassle
IMDb synopsis:
Internet love connections and mail-order brides rarely ever work out, and John should have known. Having never been lucky in the game of love and tired of waiting for the perfect woman to come along, John decides to take his chances and orders a mail-order bride from Russia online. At first, things seem perfect: his new bride Nadia is a gorgeous woman, and although she may not speak much English, her skills in the bedroom more than make up for any communication problems. When Nadia's 'cousins' unexpectedly arrive to celebrate her birthday, John is drawn into their web of corruption and crime. He, ultimately, steals ransom money (for Nadia's release) from the bank that he works at.
EDIT:
I have a second movie suggestion:
Mississippi Mermaid (1969/1970) aka La sirène du Mississipi (original title) -- starring Catherine Deneuve and Jean-Paul Belmondo
Brief Synopsis
A plantation owner''s mail-order bride turns out to be a beautiful woman with murder on her mind.
Turner Classic Movie Synopsis:
Louis Mahé, a millionaire tobacco plantation owner on the island of Réunion, has become engaged through the personals columns of a French newspaper to Julie Roussel and awaits her arrival on the steamer Mississippi. He is greeted by a young woman who surprises him by her beauty and explains that she sent her sister's photo to assure the sincerity of his intentions. They quickly marry, and Louis's adoration of his new bride makes him overlook incongruities with Julie's description of herself in her letters. One day, Louis's bride absconds after emptying his bank accounts. Louis meets Julie's sister, Berthe Roussel, who informs him that the woman he married was not Julie; together they hire a private detective, Comolli, to track down the impostor and find Berthe's sister. En route by plane to Nice, Louis is suddenly stricken ill. Recuperating in a sanitarium, he sees Julie on television, dancing at a nightclub in Antibes. He travels there and hides in her hotel room, intent on killing her. She offers no resistance, but, explaining that her name is Marion, she tells him of her past, including years spent in prison, and of her association with a heartless gangster, Richard. Richard was with her on the Mississippi when they met Julie Roussel and learned of her forthcoming marriage. He had fabricated a plot to kill Julie and send Marion in her place to rob Louis; and afterwards Richard had forced her to go through with the robbery. Louis quickly forgives Marion, and they decide to live together in France on profits from the plantation. In Aix-en-Provence their happiness is interrupted by Comolli, who has discovered Julie's murder. After trying in vain to bribe the detective to drop the case, Louis shoots him and buries him in the wine cellar of their house. He flees with Marion to Lyons, but she grows increasingly dissatisfied with their fugitive existence and longs to enjoy a life of luxury in Paris. To obtain funds, Louis returns briefly to Réunion and sells his share in the plantation, but upon his return he finds the police on their trail. They are again forced to flee, leaving behind the money; penniless, they hide out in a cabin in the French Alps, but Marion is restless and irritable. Louis becomes increasingly ill, and one day he becomes aware that Marion has been administering quantities of rat poison in his coffee. Near collapse, he makes an attempt to escape, but Marion brings him back to the cabin. He reveals his knowledge of her plan, and, urging her to fill his coffee glass, he affirms his acceptance of his fate, his lack of regrets, and his overwhelming love for her. Struck with shame, Marion knocks the glass from Louis's hand and vows to make amends. As he regains his strength, they flee the hut together into the snow.
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