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I have a great life, a great job, make a good income and have a great car too, yet when ever I look back at the women I had in my life, none of the women were ever happy with how my life was. They wanted me to make even MORE money, they wanted me to work harder ( 20 hours per day ), They wanted me to buy a Mercedes / BMW instead of Japanese Luxury, AND they didn't like the way I looked, or talked, or pretty much ANYTHING else about my life. It really is quite sad and depressing now that I think about it.
Meanwhile, all of the MEN that I know think that I'm really great and they wish they could have my life. So now I wonder ; why the heck do I want a woman in my life if none of them felt I was good enough for them. A six-figure salary is NOT good enough? What? Lexus not good enough. My hair cut not good enough. My trying to be a kind, caring, loving, flexible, 100% faithful and honest man for them 'not good enough' (yes, I've been told this by women, they wanted 'MORE'.)
I mean, when I had 2 pet cats, I would give only a small fraction of my attention to them compared to what I gave to the women in my life, and the cats loved me to death, they wanted to be close to me and always showed me affection. Please don't get me wrong; I still really like women very much and I love being kind and nice to them and doing really caring wonderful things for them, but I just don't see whats in it for me to be connected to a lady anymore when nothing I seem to do is good enough for them. When they were younger they didn't seem to have such high standards to be met, but now when they are in their late 30's to 40's, they have a laundry list of things that the men must have before they are suitable, and even Hollywood stars cannot meet all of those things.
I'm still not sure what to feel myself, because on one hand I am a bit lonely, but at the same time I'm glad that I don't have to beg and plead just to be able to stay up late trying to do my work online for the next day.
So guys; if you're girl has just left you or dumped you for some other dude, do you feel that your life is now actually BETTER without a woman in it? Do you feel more freedom to do whatever you want, and not so oppressed? Or do you feel lonely and insecure without a lady in your life?
Tell me what are your thoughts?
Answer
it all depends what you want.
Do this:Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean,
less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage
(if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed).
You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of
solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul
mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is
it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect
marriage then a child if desired.
If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought.
If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good
method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free.
You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.
Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead and do the cooking cleaning and so on. If you work you can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Make sure you have a hospital or office with only females. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants, make sure she is always satisfied as you too will be satisfied. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. What every your handling there's no need to tell your family, just make sure you on the ball so you can get it back and score. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. They can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one.
White Knights never argue, but knights make their women proud and want them. Make sure you have everything ready. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Your wife should always have access to cash and a good amount. If you can it is better you balance the books. Pay that car cash, used or new. Pay the vacation cash and have your retirement ready, remember to diversified in many ways not just many stocks but many ways. NOW if you want to use some credit cards because of perks then make sure to place that cash aside in the bank account so when the statement comes cash is already waiting ;)
On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions.
it all depends what you want.
Do this:Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean,
less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage
(if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed).
You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of
solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul
mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is
it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect
marriage then a child if desired.
If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought.
If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good
method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free.
You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.
Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead and do the cooking cleaning and so on. If you work you can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Make sure you have a hospital or office with only females. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants, make sure she is always satisfied as you too will be satisfied. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. What every your handling there's no need to tell your family, just make sure you on the ball so you can get it back and score. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. They can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one.
White Knights never argue, but knights make their women proud and want them. Make sure you have everything ready. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Your wife should always have access to cash and a good amount. If you can it is better you balance the books. Pay that car cash, used or new. Pay the vacation cash and have your retirement ready, remember to diversified in many ways not just many stocks but many ways. NOW if you want to use some credit cards because of perks then make sure to place that cash aside in the bank account so when the statement comes cash is already waiting ;)
On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions.
What is it like in prison?
Jennifer
life in prison what is it like?
is there a difference in women's and males prisons?
Answer
It's a horrible place to be. The atmosphere is violent, hateful, stressful, and angry. There's this thing called "the Convict Code", which is basically unspoken prison rules that aren't given to a prisoner in the inmate handbook. New inmates are called fish. You stay with your race and do your own time. If there's an altercation, you have to fight, even if it's over something as petty as a napkin or a candy bar. There are lots of gangs that can put you on their hit list for no reason at all, and fights can break out at any given moment. The guards, for the most part, treat the inmates like crap. They have no respect for the prisoners. They let many fights go on, and they only intervene when things become too violent. They insult the inmates and see themselves as superior. They are rough and often take unnecessary measures to control inmates. Cells are frequently checked for contraband, and write-ups, which are disciplinary infractions, are often given for the slightest things. There are many ways to create, hide, and use weapons; it's kill or be killed in the environment that is prison. If you are a recognized gang member, a troublesome, violent inmate, or a prisoner that has received multiple write-ups, you will be placed in solitary confinement. It's where you're locked down by yourself for 23 hours every day. In prison, you get 10 minutes to shower. Inmates are generally given about fifteen to twenty minutes each day to eat their meals. The "prison food chain" is as followed, from highest to lowest: Serial killers + murderers --> robbers + burglars + auto thieves + arsonists --> drug dealers + people convicted of fraud --> child molesters + rapists + child abusers. The rapists and child molesters / abusers are often victims of attacks by other inmates, though everyone in prison gets beat up at one point or another. Even the inmates have a code of ethics, and it is that you don't kill, rape, molest, or hurt females and / or children. Convicts often flood their cells or bang on the doors and / or walls to disrupt / cause trouble to the correctional officers. There is a commissary in which you can purchase "luxury" items. If you have good behavior, you can get a job within the prison (like laundry, cook, maintenance, etc.) that pays a few cents an hour.
The higher the security level of the penitentiary a person is in, the more restrictions there are.
Overall, prison is awful. You should watch shows like Lockup on MSNBC; they really capture what a life in custody is like.
It's a horrible place to be. The atmosphere is violent, hateful, stressful, and angry. There's this thing called "the Convict Code", which is basically unspoken prison rules that aren't given to a prisoner in the inmate handbook. New inmates are called fish. You stay with your race and do your own time. If there's an altercation, you have to fight, even if it's over something as petty as a napkin or a candy bar. There are lots of gangs that can put you on their hit list for no reason at all, and fights can break out at any given moment. The guards, for the most part, treat the inmates like crap. They have no respect for the prisoners. They let many fights go on, and they only intervene when things become too violent. They insult the inmates and see themselves as superior. They are rough and often take unnecessary measures to control inmates. Cells are frequently checked for contraband, and write-ups, which are disciplinary infractions, are often given for the slightest things. There are many ways to create, hide, and use weapons; it's kill or be killed in the environment that is prison. If you are a recognized gang member, a troublesome, violent inmate, or a prisoner that has received multiple write-ups, you will be placed in solitary confinement. It's where you're locked down by yourself for 23 hours every day. In prison, you get 10 minutes to shower. Inmates are generally given about fifteen to twenty minutes each day to eat their meals. The "prison food chain" is as followed, from highest to lowest: Serial killers + murderers --> robbers + burglars + auto thieves + arsonists --> drug dealers + people convicted of fraud --> child molesters + rapists + child abusers. The rapists and child molesters / abusers are often victims of attacks by other inmates, though everyone in prison gets beat up at one point or another. Even the inmates have a code of ethics, and it is that you don't kill, rape, molest, or hurt females and / or children. Convicts often flood their cells or bang on the doors and / or walls to disrupt / cause trouble to the correctional officers. There is a commissary in which you can purchase "luxury" items. If you have good behavior, you can get a job within the prison (like laundry, cook, maintenance, etc.) that pays a few cents an hour.
The higher the security level of the penitentiary a person is in, the more restrictions there are.
Overall, prison is awful. You should watch shows like Lockup on MSNBC; they really capture what a life in custody is like.
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